Back up one more time.
The Next Brother Story.

Our Next Brother moved up north in the late 70's. On his first date with his now wife he beaned her with a softball. (Very accidentally of course.) Gentleman that he is, he waited at the hospital with her mother. Her mother was a strong advocate for Downs Syndrome, as one of her children had that condition. Next Brother told her about J.R. "Why, I've met him," she said, "at such and such conference".

We think that fact may have saved Next Brother's hide.